Growing together

In any relationship, healthy communication is essential. You don’t avoid problems, you face them head on! If you don’t discuss the causes of your fights, problems will never be resolved. I know most guys don’t like to “talk” about stuff, but we have to teach them somehow because it’s really important. The whole purpose of “talking”, is to learn. With every fight, with every conflict, the main goal is to learn to understand your partner… to know your partner better so that the next time something like that happens again, you know what to do. You should be growing together, not growing apart!

Karma

You must keep your head up, give your best smile. Act like they never hurt you in the first place. I know it might not be easy, it might be very difficult but in the end it’s all worth it. And I know you will get over him, you may not think so but you will eventually. You’ll find love again better than him it’s just a matter of time. Let love find you and never give up. Never stuck on guy who won’t stuck on you. Never stoop down to their level. Let karma and God take care of the rest.

Make it Last

Though you may be going through this downhill stage in your relationship, always remember to fight. It’s the effort that counts. Remind them why you love them, remember the times where you were at your happiest. Bring back those memories to where you made them last. The butterflies, the smiles, the love. All you can ever do is prove to them how much you love them. Don’t let go so easily, bring back that joy into your relationship. I know how much you really do love to see them smile. Don’t you miss the way they smiled at you? If so, please don’t let go. This relationship of yours is worth too much to throw away. Make it last. And always remember that you’ll do anything just for a shot of their love.

Not Gonna Let Go

Within our relationship, we need to understand that it's not all about fun and games. Sometimes we will go through tough times. Times that will really push us to the limit of our breaking point. It's not that we don't want it to happen. It just does. All we can ever do is to fight for what we have. Don't let it slip away this easy because you never know that what you have right now may be the best you'll ever see. Show them how much worth they have to you, show them you're not ready to let go, show them you're not going to let go.

Distance

Long distance relationships are hard. Really hard. And no one 

else quite understands. There are more reasons to fight, to cry, 

to break up. But distance also gives us a reason to love harder 

than any other couple should. To fight harder, because in the 

end, we have something to gain. We have miles to fight through, 

and closeness to fight for. We put our entire beings into these 

relationships, and although we may not hold hands as often, or 

hug as often, or touch lips as often, we will never take those 

things for granted. Each touch is special, each kiss cherished. 

We may be separated by space and time, but the bond between 

couples who push through the hardest of times is the strongest. 

There may be miles between, but there is no one closer. 

Don't Stop

I think that one of the biggest reason why relationships do not 

work out in the long run is because at one point, 

one side (or both) stops trying. Before one claims another person as their 

significant other, they would do anything to make that person 

happy. They would chase, they would flirt, they would be 

charming. They would send daily morning and goodnight texts every 

time you wake up or go to sleep. They would write corny messages 

and pick up lines just to make sure that there is a smile upon 

your face. But once they claim you as theirs, all of those things 

eventually stop. The 5 page texts slowly turn into 1. 

The constant calls turn into not calling at all. And the lovely 

endearments turn into daily arguments. In order for a 

relationship to work, don’t ever stop chasing. Just because the 

person you want is now consider “yours”, it does not mean they 

deserve anything less than the time when you’re trying to win them over.

LDR Life -Dada

Isa sa pinakamahirap na relasyon ay ang LDR. Totoo, halos lahat sinasabi na 'pag nasa isang LDR ka daw, matitibay kung gaano ka kalakas at katibay. Nandyan at mananatiling nandyan yung katotohanan, na wala ang pisikal nyong presensya para sa isa't isa.

Walang yayakap sa'yo 'pag nalulungkot ka.

Walang magpapatahan sayo matapos kang maiyak. 

Walang mangingiliti sa'yo pag malapit ka ng mainis.

Walang tatapik ng likod mo at sasabihin na, "Kaya mo 'yan, Mahal kita."

Walang taong hahalik sa'yo 'pag nalilto at tuliro ka.

Walang magpaparamdam sayo kakayanin niyo ang lahat kasi ultimo hawak mo sa mukha niya 'di mo magawa.

Alam ko kung gaano kayo sumusubok na solusyunan lahat ng problemang dumarating. Selos, Kawalan ng oras, Hinala. Pero lagi niyong iisipin na darating ang araw na magkakasama ka'yo, hindi man bukas o sa susunod na taon, hindi man sa isang linggo o susunod na dekada, kundi sa perfect time ni God. Ang kailangan mo lang gawin ay maging matatag, mahalin siya, respetuhin siya, pasayahin siya at hintayin siya sa araw na muli kayong magkikita.

Kaya yan. Pinagtibay na kayo ng panahon, 'wag nyong hayaan ng dahil sa isang bagay, mawawasak lahat ng sinakripisyo niyo. Wag susuko! Kaya 'yan. Tiwala lang.

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