Growing together

In any relationship, healthy communication is essential. You don’t avoid problems, you face them head on! If you don’t discuss the causes of your fights, problems will never be resolved. I know most guys don’t like to “talk” about stuff, but we have to teach them somehow because it’s really important. The whole purpose of “talking”, is to learn. With every fight, with every conflict, the main goal is to learn to understand your partner… to know your partner better so that the next time something like that happens again, you know what to do. You should be growing together, not growing apart!

Karma

You must keep your head up, give your best smile. Act like they never hurt you in the first place. I know it might not be easy, it might be very difficult but in the end it’s all worth it. And I know you will get over him, you may not think so but you will eventually. You’ll find love again better than him it’s just a matter of time. Let love find you and never give up. Never stuck on guy who won’t stuck on you. Never stoop down to their level. Let karma and God take care of the rest.

Make it Last

Though you may be going through this downhill stage in your relationship, always remember to fight. It’s the effort that counts. Remind them why you love them, remember the times where you were at your happiest. Bring back those memories to where you made them last. The butterflies, the smiles, the love. All you can ever do is prove to them how much you love them. Don’t let go so easily, bring back that joy into your relationship. I know how much you really do love to see them smile. Don’t you miss the way they smiled at you? If so, please don’t let go. This relationship of yours is worth too much to throw away. Make it last. And always remember that you’ll do anything just for a shot of their love.

Not Gonna Let Go

Within our relationship, we need to understand that it's not all about fun and games. Sometimes we will go through tough times. Times that will really push us to the limit of our breaking point. It's not that we don't want it to happen. It just does. All we can ever do is to fight for what we have. Don't let it slip away this easy because you never know that what you have right now may be the best you'll ever see. Show them how much worth they have to you, show them you're not ready to let go, show them you're not going to let go.

Distance

Long distance relationships are hard. Really hard. And no one 

else quite understands. There are more reasons to fight, to cry, 

to break up. But distance also gives us a reason to love harder 

than any other couple should. To fight harder, because in the 

end, we have something to gain. We have miles to fight through, 

and closeness to fight for. We put our entire beings into these 

relationships, and although we may not hold hands as often, or 

hug as often, or touch lips as often, we will never take those 

things for granted. Each touch is special, each kiss cherished. 

We may be separated by space and time, but the bond between 

couples who push through the hardest of times is the strongest. 

There may be miles between, but there is no one closer. 

Don't Stop

I think that one of the biggest reason why relationships do not 

work out in the long run is because at one point, 

one side (or both) stops trying. Before one claims another person as their 

significant other, they would do anything to make that person 

happy. They would chase, they would flirt, they would be 

charming. They would send daily morning and goodnight texts every 

time you wake up or go to sleep. They would write corny messages 

and pick up lines just to make sure that there is a smile upon 

your face. But once they claim you as theirs, all of those things 

eventually stop. The 5 page texts slowly turn into 1. 

The constant calls turn into not calling at all. And the lovely 

endearments turn into daily arguments. In order for a 

relationship to work, don’t ever stop chasing. Just because the 

person you want is now consider “yours”, it does not mean they 

deserve anything less than the time when you’re trying to win them over.

LDR Life -Dada

Isa sa pinakamahirap na relasyon ay ang LDR. Totoo, halos lahat sinasabi na 'pag nasa isang LDR ka daw, matitibay kung gaano ka kalakas at katibay. Nandyan at mananatiling nandyan yung katotohanan, na wala ang pisikal nyong presensya para sa isa't isa.

Walang yayakap sa'yo 'pag nalulungkot ka.

Walang magpapatahan sayo matapos kang maiyak. 

Walang mangingiliti sa'yo pag malapit ka ng mainis.

Walang tatapik ng likod mo at sasabihin na, "Kaya mo 'yan, Mahal kita."

Walang taong hahalik sa'yo 'pag nalilto at tuliro ka.

Walang magpaparamdam sayo kakayanin niyo ang lahat kasi ultimo hawak mo sa mukha niya 'di mo magawa.

Alam ko kung gaano kayo sumusubok na solusyunan lahat ng problemang dumarating. Selos, Kawalan ng oras, Hinala. Pero lagi niyong iisipin na darating ang araw na magkakasama ka'yo, hindi man bukas o sa susunod na taon, hindi man sa isang linggo o susunod na dekada, kundi sa perfect time ni God. Ang kailangan mo lang gawin ay maging matatag, mahalin siya, respetuhin siya, pasayahin siya at hintayin siya sa araw na muli kayong magkikita.

Kaya yan. Pinagtibay na kayo ng panahon, 'wag nyong hayaan ng dahil sa isang bagay, mawawasak lahat ng sinakripisyo niyo. Wag susuko! Kaya 'yan. Tiwala lang.

Magkabilang Mundo

Mahalin Kita -Anna

<3

Iparamdam mo sa kanya na siya yung pinakamagandang babae sa buong mundo kahit hindi naman talaga. I-surprise mo siya dahil yung mga surprise ay sobrang naaappreciate niya. Yakapin mo siya, yung mahigpit. Kahit na walang okasyon o dahilan. Dahil sa pagyakap mo, magiging komportable siya. Kantahan mo siya kahit hindi maganda yung boses mo, dahil para sa kanya, ikaw ang pinakamagaling na singer. Lutuan mo siya ng pagkain kahit na hindi ka magaling magluto. Dahil kahit hindi masarap yung luto mo, uubusin niya yun. Hawakan mo yung kamay niya kahit pasmado siya, dahil sa paraan na yun, mararamdaman niya na safe siya. Kausapin mo siya palagi kahit na wala kang maisip na topic, dahil kahit na tahimik lang kayong dalawa, nagiging masaya parin siya. Sulatan mo siya kahit hindi maganda ang sulat mo, dahil kahit lumipas ang madaming taon, itatago niya yun. Magjoke ka palagi sa kanya kahit napakakorny mo, dahil kahit gano pa kakorny ang joke mo, tatawanan niya parin yun. Kung may mga panahon na hindi kayo magkaintindihan, wag mo hayaang matapos ang araw na hindi kayo nagiging okay. Dahil hindi mo lang alam, hindi natulog yan buong gabi kakaiyak. Maging proud ka na girlfriend mo siya kahit na hindi naman siya kasing ganda ng iba. Kapag nagaaway kayo at umiiyak na siya, wag ka na magmatigas. Hawakan mo yung kamay niya at yakapin mo siya para maramdaman niya na kahit ano pang pinagdadaanan niyo, hindi ka bibitaw sa kanya. Wag kang magsabi sa kanya ng mga sweet words para lang pakiligin siya, dahil ang totoong sweet, kusang nakikita sa galaw. Ipakilala mo siya sa magulang mo at sa mga kaibigan mo. Wag mo siyang paghihintayin dahil maikli lang ang pasensya niya. Papaalalahanan mo siya palagi dahil makakalimutin siya. Wag mo siyang pagseselosohin dahil magagalit siya. Palagi kang magpaparamdam hangga’t kaya mo dahil kung hindi, mapaparanoid siya. At higit sa lahat, mahalin mo siya. Yung tapat at totoo. Mahalin mo siya na may malinis na intensyon at walang bahid na panloloko. Dahil siya yung babaeng karapatdapat mahalin. Siya yung babaeng karapatdapat sumaya.

Sweet <3

Butterflies

Butterflies. 

That feeling deep fluttery feeling I get in my tummy every time we talk and every time I think you’re looking my way. Those crazy things that only a few  people are able to give a person their whole entire life. 

Well this is the only time I’ve wished for dead butterflies, 

I wish they would fly far, far away from me if they could only give me enough time to fly away from you. 

Don’t keep me wishing, waiting.

<3

No one is the same

No one is the same. 

Honestly, not every guy is the same and not every girl is the same either. 

Just because one guy effed you over doesn't mean that all guys are jerks. 

And just because you got screwed over doesn’t mean they all act the same. 

They’re not. 

Stop blaming every single guy on everything. 

There are guys out there, who care about you, who’ll love you as much as you love your self, who will treat you right, and are madly inlove with you. 

You just haven’t found that right person yet that can treat you differently from those other people that you’ve been with. 

Before you go on and say, “all guys are the same” just remember, there are good guys out there. 

You just have to open your eyes and hearts. 

Open your damn eyes, and realize that there are guys who want you and will treat you right and hold your hand and be by your side through the hardest times. 

Sometime in life, you’re going to find that perfect someone that’s going to treat you better, just wait.

Love Takes Time

Disappointed

Today is effing fucked up. 

I hate this I swear. 

I cried the whole day, 

and I tried getting out of my house but not a single friend is available. 

All I wanted was a hug and a shoulder to cry on and a little distractions. 

Now, I've got a feeling someone is pissed at me for 

i-have-no-idea-why. 

Omg screw today, everything went upside down and turned out a mess!

Do you still care about me and do you still want me?

Or is everything all about her her her?

Tell Me Straight

Hurt

I hate to say this but, I fell in love with you knowing that there was never any possibility of being with you. 

It sucks. 

Very soon, I will forget you.

Be Strong 

Love Love Love

Infatuation:

Loving feelings towards a love object that are largely based upon fantasy and idealization (instead of experience). Often when partners get to know each other, infatuation diminishes.

Romantic Love:

An abiding love for a partner with whom you feel passion, attraction, caring and respect.

Eros:

A passionate love usually involving sexual feelings for a love interest.

Companionate Love:

Feelings of warmth towards a friend with whom you love to spend time with.

Unconditional Love:

A type of affection and caring that is so strong that you feel it consistently, regardless of what that other person does.

Conditional Love:

A love that requires specific action or conditions in order to be maintained. For example, at its extreme, a parent who gives very conditional love would only love his child when he gets straight A’s, becomes a surgeon and has two children. The love is based on outside conditions and when they do not occur, the love is withdrawn.

Puppy Love:

A childish, innocent temporary crush on someone that you don’t know well.

Maternal Love:

This term usually connotes love that is nurturing, accepting and protective. In actuality this love can also be given by a father etc.

Paternal Love:

This term connotes love that involves guidance and some authority. Paternal love usually prepares a child to be ready for the outside world. Again, in reality this type of love is not gender specific.

Soulmate Love:

This type of love is described as a love that has survived multiple life times. Not everyone believes in this concept.

Spiritual/Divine Love:

This type of love recognizes the Divine light in everyone and everything. Love is given to everyone as an act of loving God.

Love of your country or patriotism:

This is love for the place you live or the place that were born. It is a type of loyalty and a special feeling of belonging that you attribute to that specific geographic location.

Self-Love:

This is a positive feeling that you have about who you are and what you deserve. It often is expressed by treating yourself well, respecting yourself, wanting yourself to be happy and expecting others to respect you too.

Brotherly Love:

This term connotes having a feeling of love for your neighbor, because all humanity is considered to be part of a larger family of human beings.

Tough Love:

This term is used to describe a love that is expressed by setting boundaries for the good of the other person. So for example, a parent may send their teenager to rehab if he is drug addicted, even if he does not want to go. They feel that this is an act of love because it stems from a desire for their son’s ultimate good and happiness. This type of love is described as a love that has survived multiple life times. Not everyone believes in this concept.

All Kind of Love

Treasure

Girls are like apples… the best ones are at the top of the trees. The boys don’t want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples that are on the ground that aren’t as good, but easy. So the apples at the top think there is something wrong with them, when, in reality, they are amazing. They just have to wait for the right boy to come along, the one who’s brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree…

Beautiful 

I want to forget

Please?

Cries. I find my self lost, drowning in the pool of tears that fall from my eyes. Your mean words. Your harmful stares. The things you say about me when I’m not there to hear them. I don’t know why I continue to be so attracted to you, so hopeful of you, so head over heels. I wish it all would go away, the memories, the pain, the day we met. Everything. I wish we could just start over and move forward as if it never existed. I want to forget. 

You're Killin' Me

I'm Broken

Lies. ”I want you back, I love you”. Please, cut the crap. If you loved me or even wanted me back in the least bit you wouldn’t be with her, wouldn’t make constant assumptions that I aim to hurt you, most of all you wouldn’t cause these tears to fall. I wish you, and every other guy in the world, would please just learn to tell it like it is. You’re killing me.